Who takes part in bullying: The Bully, the Bystander, or the Victim. According to the Oxford Dictionary a bully, bystander and victim can be defined as:
Bully: "a person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker"
Bystander: "a person who is present at an event or incident but does not take part"
Victim: "a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action"
Bullying is something that has exponentially grown throughout recent years. Because of the rapid increase in bullying incidents, school systems, teachers, lawmakers, and parents are taking it more seriously. Consequences have become more serious because of how severe the bullying has become.
There are many different types of bullying: Verbal bullying, Social Bullying, Cyber Bullying and Physical Bullying. Bullying can take place anywhere from in school, on the bus, and at home through a computer screen.
Verbal
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Social
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Physical
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-Teasing
-Name-calling
-Inappropriate sexual comments
-Taunting
-Threatening to cause harm
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-Leaving someone out on purpose
-Telling other children not to be friends with someone
-Spreading rumors
-Embarrassing someone in public
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-Hitting/kicking/pinching
-Spitting
-Tripping/pushing
-Taking or breaking someone’s things
-Making mean or rude hand gestures
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Throughout the years, Cyberbullying has become more the most harmful to its victims. Cyberbullying leaves countless effects on its victims. Victims of cyberbully and any other type of bullying may:miss, skip or drop out of school, receive poor grades, have lower self-esteem,use alcohol and drugs, depression and potentially attempt to injure themselves.
This is a edit from the movie Cyberbully. The film not only captures every effect of what can come from cyberbullying but shows how emotionally draining it can be. For those who have been bullying, please note that this will be a trigger. A trigger is a term used by therapist; it means that people who have been in a similar state might feel those emotions again.
Bullying can be prevented. It can be prevented at school and home by using consequences, policies, and family education. For example, "As of September, 2009, most states have bullying laws. Bullying laws do not exist, however, in Alabama, the District of Columbia, Hawaii, Massachusetts, Michigan, Mississippi, Montana, North Dakota, South Dakota, and Wisconsin." New Anti Bullying Laws "provides for the training of public school staff in addressing bullying, intimidation, and harassment, as well as in suicide prevention."
sources:
http://www.stopbullying.gov/what-is-bullying/index.html
http://www.bullyingstatistics.org/content/prevent-bullying.html
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